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“Principles.”
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Question Anon (from Anonymous at request of author.)
Just looking at the first 164 pages of the book Alcoholics Anonymous, what does it mean "to practice these principles in all our affairs?" What are the principles expressed in those 164 pages? What is the alcoholic supposed to do with those principles?
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In the book "Alcoholics Anonymous" (also known as the Big Book), the phrase "to practice these principles in all our affairs" refers to the application of the principles outlined in the program of recovery to every aspect of an alcoholic's life,not just their relationship with alcohol. It suggests that the principles should be integrated into all areas of their thoughts, actions, and interactions with others.
The principles expressed in the first 164 pages of the Big Book include:
- Honesty: Being truthful with oneself and others about one's alcoholism and its effects.
- Hope: Believing in the possibility of recovery and a better life.
- Faith: Developing a reliance on a higher power or a power greater than oneself.
- Courage: Facing and overcoming fears and challenges associated with recovery.
- Integrity: Developing moral principles and living in alignment with them.
- Willingness: Being open-minded and willing to take necessary actions for recovery.
- Humility: Recognizing one's limitations and seeking help and support from others.
- Brotherly love: Cultivating compassion and care for fellow alcoholics.
- Justice: Making amends for past wrongs and making things right with others.
- Perseverance: Continuing to work on one's recovery, even in the face of challenges.
- Spirituality: Developing a spiritual connection or seeking a spiritual path.
- Service: Helping others who struggle with alcoholism and supporting the recovery community.
The alcoholic is supposed to integrate these principles into their daily life. It involves not just abstaining from alcohol but also practicing honesty, humility, integrity, and other principles in their interactions with others. The goal is to achieve a transformation of character and a new way of living that is centered around recovery and personal growth. By practicing these principles in all areas of life, an alcoholic can maintain sobriety and build a meaningful, fulfilling life in recovery.
Question Anon
Specifically, how am I supposed to do that? My sponsor George, who I think saved my life, told me any alcoholic coming into AA is a liar, a thief, and a con, so how can I possibly trust anything that I think? That's why I need a sponsor.
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It's understandable to have doubts and concerns about trusting yourself and your own judgment, especially in the early stages of recovery. Having a sponsor can be immensely helpful in navigating these challenges. Here are some suggestions on how to practice the principles in all your affairs and address the trust issue:
- Work closely with your sponsor: Your sponsor is there to guide and support you through the recovery process. Regularly meet with your sponsor, share your thoughts, feelings, and concerns, and seek their guidance on applying the principles in your life.
- Embrace rigorous honesty: Recognize that the journey of recovery begins with honesty. Be honest with yourself and your sponsor about your struggles, fears, and doubts. Embracing honesty helps build trust, both with yourself and with others.
- Start small and build confidence: Begin by applying the principles in small, manageable ways. For example, practice honesty in your daily interactions, keep your commitments, and seek opportunities to be of service to others. As you experience success in these areas, your confidence will grow.
- Develop self-awareness: Pay attention to your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. Reflect on how they align with the principles of recovery. Regular self-reflection and journaling can help you identify areas for growth and gain insight into your progress.
- Attend meetings and seek support: Regularly attending AA meetings provides a supportive environment where you can connect with others who are on a similar journey. Sharing your experiences and hearing from others can reinforce the principles and help you develop trust in the program.
- Take suggestions and follow the program: Trust the experience and wisdom of those who have successfully recovered. Follow the suggestions and recommendations of your sponsor and other members of AA who have found success in practicing the principles.
Remember that trust in yourself and the process of recovery takes time. By actively engaging in the program, seeking guidance from your sponsor, and embracing the principles of AA, you can gradually rebuild trust in yourself and your